From the Book - Rev. & expanded
The bomb in the basement and the bomb in the attic : common characteristics of alcoholic families and survival adaptation of adult children of alcoholics
The same but different : differences in children from the same alcoholic family and differences in alcoholic families
Self-sufficient in an insufficient way : learning to survive under chronic stress
The gift that keeps on giving : characteristics of children of alcoholics
Surviving the unimaginable : the resiliency of children of alcoholics
Validation of trauma and breaking through denial : understanding the normal response to an abnormal and painful life
Building a cognitive life raft : developing an intellectual understanding of the effects of a painful life
An emotional safety net : building a relationship with the child within
Grief work : the pain that begins to heal itself
Mourning, then behavior change : moving on and giving back
I want you, want you gone, want you back : ACOAs in intimate relationships
Misplaced loyalty : the codependency factor
Empowering change in a painful legacy : adult children and sibling relationships
ACOAs become parents : a pioneering effort
A pain too deep : ACOAs taking care of elderly parents
ACOAs in the workplace : I can be a team player as long as I'm the only player on the team
Acceptance and forgiveness : holding on to resentment is like taking poison and hoping the other guy dies
Finding the sacred in the ordinary : opening a window to spirituality for adult children of alcoholics